Friday, July 25, 2008

How Things Have Changed

We all seem to go through changes in our life. We have times when we couldn't be higher and floating along and then there are times when we don't think that we can push on. This is one of those times, For those who have not heard, we have lost our mom. Melissa's mom died tragically at Bear Lake last Friday. The accident happen while Melissa was trying to reposition a truck. There was a couple of injuries suffered besides Michele (Mom), Nicole- bruised lung, cuts and bruises, cracked ribs and a really stiff neck, Chantal- has cuts and bruises head to toe along with a sore knee and ankle, Carlos (Dad)- bruises and a sore lower back shooting pain down his leg, and Chloe- Three scull fractures minor enough that no surgery was needed, Broken femur, a black eye and a couple cuts. 
These injuries seem to be healing fast for most of the family, but the loss of Michele will be felt for a long time to come. I thought that loosing Michele would soon dissipate, as usual I'm being proved wrong. I have become lost and not sure what I as an in-law am supposed to do. Not only did Chloe get injured, but Melissa lost her mom and best friend. This has caused a dilemma in my heart and mind as to which situation warrants my attention the most. I have decided that I must run faster with the help of everyone around me. We can do it together.
Now, let me say this we have truly been blessed. We have had support come from all around us. At Bear Lake we met some truly amazing people who helped us with everything. They came to us and met our needs just after the accident and continues still. When we got back to camp everything was packed and ready to go. People from all over the campground came to support us and get us on the road. I cannot ever explain how much these people who knew nothing of us, came and took care of our family. We are truly blessed to have met these wonderful people. All I can do is Say THANK YOU, we are fortunate to have met these wonderful people. 
As the Funeral came we continued to receive an incredible amount of support from our families and friends, they came from all over the country to make sure we were taken care of and that we knew we were loved. Often time I have taken this for granted and not realized how important it is to have a strong family around me. The gratitude needed to express the support we have received here at home has slipped away from me and all I can say is I LOVE YOU.

22 comments:

Jonathan and Michelle said...

We love you guys so much and are so saddened at the loss of Michele. Please know that we are here for you and would love to do anything that we can to help, especially now as you try to settle back into life. Melissa, you mean the world to me and I am truly grateful for our friendship, you are in my thoughts & prayers, I will be in touch.

Jackie Sullivan said...

Michele was and is a wonderful woman. I couldn't have asked for a better other mother! Mel P and Family we love you so much and pary for you each night!

Jess said...

We just wanted to tell you guys that we love you and you are in our prayers.

Kristie said...

You are truely loved. There is no words that can express how much we feel for you and want to help you. Any time you want to get away you can come and visit us. We would be willing to help get you here. We love you and will continue to pray for you.

Denae said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

Melissa said...

You don't know me...I found your blog through my sister (Kris') blog and I heard this story on the news. I am SO sorry for what you are going through. I KNOW that the Lord will carry you and especially Melissa through this trial. We will fast and pray for you and your family.

drpalaska said...

Melissa and Nephi,
I am so saddened by this terrible tragedy that has beset your little family. I want you both to know that we think of you often and are heartbroken that we can not be near you in your time of hurt and pain. Please know that we will do anything to help you. I pray daily that there will be some relief in your lives.
We love you,
Denise, Scott and Kayla

Anonymous said...

Nephi and Melissa' All our thoughts and prayers are with you. Call when you need to talk to. We are always here for you. All our Love, John Lisa and Kids.

Jenny Kapp said...

I wish I could take your pain and just hold it for a little while - that's what big sisters do. My heart aches for you both. Nephi - just keep praying that your load will feel light and you will be able to take care of both of your sweet girls. Melissa - time will heal your sorrowing heart. We love you!!! You are strong enough with the help of the Lord to overcome this pain. You will be in our thoughts and prayers always. Call if we can do more to help!

Dee's Piddle said...

You both have some wonderful friends. This past week has been amazing. Depths and heights of human emotion before unimaginable and now shared. "In-law" is such a gentile concept Nephi. You are family and always will be. I share Melissa's sentiment.It seems you always have been. You were and are always there when needed. I know Melissa is safe with you. We all love you Nephi. Uncle (Older) Steve. Not to be confused with uncle (younger) Steve

Jess said...

I hope you're doing well right now. I've been thinking about you and praying that you're doing okay. If you need anything, we're just a phone call away.

-Jessie

Hoggards said...

Melissa I was so hoping to get the chance to talk to you on Wednesday at the funeral. I hope that you are doing okay. I wish I would've known your mom a little better, she sounds like she was an amazing woman! I would like to do something for you guys but don't know what. If you ever need ANYTHING please don't hesitate to ask. You have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be. We love you!

Mel said...

I am Shannon's cousin, and Mary Bishop's niece. I just wanted you to know that even though I don't know your family, I am mourning with you! My heart breaks for your family and may the Lord watch over and comfort you at this very difficult time. Especially Melissa!
Praying and thinking of you!

Julie Sacks said...

I am so sorry for your loss Melissa and Nephi. Your family will be in our prayers.

Tiffany Robinson said...

TO Nephi, you are an amazing husband to be strong for your wife and child through this difficult time. TO Melissa, I know it will be hard at times...but that is when you need to let someone in and give you service. Service not only helps you but it also helps the person giving the service. If you need to talk I am here. I was there with you at Bear Lake. I also came to the viewing. please let me help in any way.
Tiffany Robinson.

Anonymous said...

To you both, I want you guys to know how much you all mean to this family and how truly grateful we are to have you guys. I can not even began to tell you both how wonderful last week was for all of us, Thank you for such an amazing experience. If their is anything that we can do please just let us know. Our thought and prayers will alway be with you guys. Love you Jen

Anonymous said...

Melissa -

Here is a great blog for you to read if you want... She just lost her baby to drowning in June. She has some very comforting words..

www.adailyscoop.blogspot.com

Bradbury Bunch said...

Melissa and Nephi,

I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. This post has me in tears, and reminds me how to enjoy each and every moment with your loved ones. I can't imagine the feelings you are feeling, but just know that you are loved, and that Heavenly Father is watching out for you and your family. I love you guys!

Nickie

Anonymous said...

We just wanted to tell you that we love you and all of your family. What a joy it was to spend those few short days with all of you and our Arizona cousins. That time together will always be remembered by us. It's too bad we live so far away, so we'd like to invite you to our blog page so you can keep up to date on us. We are at soandrusfamilyblog.blogspot.com
Love, Owen & Shelly

Anonymous said...

It was indeed a sad week and I know it will be hard moving forward. We just want you to know how much your family, sisters, and father have been in our prayers. We love you all very much!

Awesome Andrus' said...

We wanted to express our love and appreciation to you and your family for the wonderful experiences we had during such a hard time for all of us. You are all in our prayers and we hope to see you more often than we have in the past. We were able to witness how much we truly love being in Utah, but more importantly, amongst our family.

Chelsea and Johnny said...

Just wanted to say we love you guys so much. It was wonderful to see all of you. We always enjoy spending time with you both. Hope we can see eachother again soon. Disney, X-mas, or something like that. Our prayers are with your family. Give a hug to that beautiful daughter of yours for us. Love you!